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Sex advice: If someone wants you to strangle/slap them during sex…

…but it makes you feel uncomfortable because you use sex as an expression to show that you care for them… do you make yourself do it because you want them to satisfied in their temporary and inconsequential pain, or do you refuse to; based on your own discomfort with their reasoning or gauging limits?

I’m too much of a pussy to be rough. I’ve reserved being rough for my enemies, not the people I care about… it conflicts with me. They want it, but it’s something most want to avoid… I want to give them what they want, and I want them to think of me favorably… is it a reasonable way to show affection?

Excuse my ignorance but is it something one would categorize as a dangerous paraphilia or a harmless fetish? I just want to feel ethically sound in whatever I do…

I need your advice.

I want to start a discussion about prostitution.

Quite frankly I’m pro-prostitution and I have never seen a problem with it as long as it’s between consensual adults. It’s just any other career path; so long as no one is getting hurt I don’t see why anyone should be stigmatized or shamed for it.

Much like being a stripper, or a porn star. Informed consent and people should just live and let live. It does not affect you.

The wages of these people far exceeds what the majority of other “more acceptable” jobs; and so long as no one is being coerced or forced into working, I really don’t give a fuck — they should be treated with just as much respect.

People often refuse to acknowledge the idea that the people who should potentially be stigmatized are those purchasing said service; but even then — I’d rather someone be a hooker’s client than a rapist. To say just as much, there are disabled people who deserve the right to have access to such services are they are fully functioning human beings.

It’s legal where I am from (though there are a few grey areas) and I don’t particularly understand why a society would deem it an inappropriate business to the extent it would be criminalized. Sex trafficking, drug use, rape and slavery are all a result of a broken legal system that harms “for morality”, much like the drug war.

Thoughts?

I’m so done. I need consistent sex.

I can’t deal with this shit anymore. I need someone who is willing and able to fuck at least 4 times a week. I want to be monogamous and I’m over appearing “needy” for having a decent sex drive.

I could always have this conversation; but I don’t want to risk going back to square one for coming on too strong. I’m not retarded, I don’t expect it last forever; I don’t plan anything more than a couple of weeks ahead of time. I don’t give a fuck if I get hurt. I don’t understand how I’m expected to be emotionally distant from the only person I allow to get intimate with me; who shows me affection, gives me their time and has me experience things I’ve never physically felt before.

I fucking hate the stupid as shit ‘dating game’ where at least one person is hiding how they’re feeling throughout the entire thing.

Do I dump your ass and find someone else who is more interested, or do I give you benefit of the doubt and let this go on?

I’m a noob! Quit treating me like I should know better.

I want to fuck to loud music.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again.

Incorporate that undeniable rhythmic pulsating dance that takes over your motion, the encapsulating sound into the most blatant expression of sensual affection to share that mental state of pure ecstasy.

Really just… go all-out with someone. Be loud. Very loud.

Long-lasting, hard, and deeply intense - in a gamete of emotions and expressions.

…FUCK

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